Hi YoYo! I read through your thread, and I see so many positives with your H...and I think you are doing a great job with the dbing, you seem to be cool, calm and collected in your interactions with him, although I know how darned anxious it makes a person. but you're handling that well, also.
I really see a lot of MLC stuff in your h, and I'm wondering if you've read some of the MLC stuff here on the board? I've found it very very helpful. Particularly threads by Snodderly, and a thread called "All Sermons on one Thread" by Hearts Blessing. I've gotten a lot of guidance from them. I've also gotten a lot from Sage and from Ellie...lets see, that would be "valentines Day massacre" for Ellie, and I think Sage's current thread is "looking backward to move forward". I will try to find the "as if attitude" post from way back and bump it for you soon. Hang in there, I know it's gut wrenchingly tough, but I don't think your H is anywhere near letting go of YOU. If anything, I'd guess he's making some "touch and goes" (snodderly's term) in preparation for beginning reconnection.
