Hi! I also read in your previous thread (page 1) that you mentioned a book (written for the OW) that if a guy doesn't leave his family/wife within 3 months, he ain't gonna; and if he hasn't stop sleeping with his wife, he ain't gonna leave his wife. Appreciate if you could point me to the direction of this book. I need some morale boost. My H started his R with OW since Sept/Oct 2004. I found out in early April 2005. And since then, he has been confused. One moment, he wants to work on the M, another he is not so sure. He says he tried to break it off with the OW, but both he and OW kept on running back to each other. I have stopped pursuing and asking questions about OW. H is not so angry lately, but is still unsure about us. But he has taken the initiative to start work in another company (OW is a coworker) in about 2 months' time. I don't know....what's the prognosis?? Appreciate your experience.