Quote: I think there's a dbing lesson there...because while she was putting me down, I was chewing my tongue off to try to avoid saying anything negative about her, (most of the time I managed not to SAY it, at least)so that H wouldnt feel he had to defend her (which he always did).
There it is again, that High Road - it's tough to walk it, but it usually does pay off. Far better to let the OW show her bad side than for you to show yours!
