Just my 2 cents here, but I think it is hard because you hate the b&tch and you really want to kick her a$$! Ok, now that you have that out--I think you may also want your H to defend you and take your side in this, so you'd like to tell him and see him get all pissy at her again. But I think you need to leave it alone. No reaction is the best reaction sometimes. Don't give her what she wants. I think she is trying to get a reaction out of you and if she does she will keep picking at you. If she doesn't she is bound to get bored with it and move on.
You are better than her, Deb--remember that! And you are "stuck" with him now
