Hi Mollie, it's good to "talk" to you... you know, sometimes it's hard to hear him talk about ow, other times it's very reassuring for some strange reason. I'm not sure why. I keep remembering what I read in "not just friends" when it said to get past an A, part of what needs to be done is to put "windows into the A and walls around the M"...I keep thinking this is exactly what H is doing, I think maybe he just has this need to talk about it...he did comment the other day that it helps.
I am just looking forward to the time when he can stop feeling sorry for her... ...In my opinion, which he agrees with most of the time, I think, she knew exactly what she was doing, and if she didnt want to have to face the potential consequences, she shouldnt have done the deed, so she really doesnt have much room to whine.
Quote: it is still alot of work to keep things going and not get back into that same old M we were in or back to the same old person I was. But sometimes I just sit for a minute and realize that I am much happier now and I'm crazy about that man, faults and all!
Amen!!! my thoughts exactly!!! Mollie, what is your thread???? I think I knew and then lost it...
...In my opinion, which he agrees with most of the time, I think, she knew exactly what she was doing, and if she didnt want to have to face the potential consequences, she shouldnt have done the deed, so she really doesnt have much room to whine.