Deb, sounds like things are going really well for you two. I admire your confidence in yourself. To be able to listen to him talk about her and feel good about you is great! Sounds like he's just got to talk her out of himself now. Go through all the stuff one more time. It's got to be hard for you, but isn't that one of the things we've always wanted--for our Hs to be able to talk to us about stuff instead of going somewhere else with it?

Keep up the good work. I believe that things are better with H and I but it is still alot of work to keep things going and not get back into that same old M we were in or back to the same old person I was. But sometimes I just sit for a minute and realize that I am much happier now and I'm crazy about that man, faults and all!

I'm really happy for you Deb!