Haven't been posting lately, caught up in my own drama. Things seem to be going really good for you. It gives me a lot of hope (no pun intended!). As you say if it can work in your sitch it can work in most.
I have to say hats off to you for Dbing through ow being in picture. I threw a fit recently because H brought home some gifts of clothing and denied it saying it was in the house all the time.
It sent me into a tailspin. But I am calming down and trying to deal with it more effectively. Don't know if I would be able to Db if H is having an ongoing A. I really admire your strength.
