I certainly hear you regarding the self-absorption. MY W was out all week with D3 and she did not call once. I had to call her even to keep up with what was going on. For part of that time I was sick as a dog, flat on my back. MY W knew it. Never did call to ask how I was. And when I called after I recovered a little she did not even ask me how I was! Clearly, even friends do better dont they? My friend's XH (in major MLC) sent her D papers while her father was in the hospital following a stroke. He came crawling back to her three months after the D. Yeah, one wonders why we want to put up with such people. Even strangers are more courteous and caring than them..... Are we all just plain crazy? Who knows?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
