Thanks Bruce,

Yeah, painful realizations. My heart still says I love her, but my head has decided to render up some reasons why I shouldn't. I guess I'm just asking myself if it really is in my and my kids' best interest to pursue a R with my XW. Obviously I think things would have to be different than they are now. I'll repeat my question....
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If someone really cared at all about you don't you think they would care about the things that are most important to you? Express interest in these important things? Would you really think of someone as a friend or seriously consider someone for a R when they didn't even acknowledge the things important to you?



In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt