I understand how you feel.On the one hand your divorced so it ok to go out with someone new.On the other it feels like cheating a bit.
I remember last year I went out with a guy for the first time.I enjoyed our date.But I was still thinking about stbx.I had been seperated a year by then.I thought I was ready.But by the end of the date I knew I wasn't .Not if I was still thinking about stbx.
Now fastforward a year later.I'm seeing a nice man.casually.I enjoy his company and he mine.But we understand that we are not serious.I'm good with that.I know I'm not ready for love yet.
So as long as your both in agreement that your casual then it should be ok.But you need to have a talk with her and let her know.That way she can decide if that is what she wants.I'm willing to bet she will like the idea.After all she is still fresh from her divorce.And most people don't want to be serious right out of the starting gate.
You wont know what she wants until you ask her.
Later friend Briget
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