Quote: I've heard it said by quite a few people. Once you start dating you aren't DBing. Unless you're taking big mouth's advice.
My view of dbing is doing what works to try and break up the div, AND getting your own life together. You've done a lot to try and stop her WA, now if you feel you've done everything and want to start dating, who says you're breaking the rules?
Remember none of us here are dbing coaches. We have our own views of the db/dr methods, and what works for one person, may or may not work for another.
Besides, w/the indefatiguable pursuing you've done in the past, when did you ever follow the rules?
Quote: I'm an idiot.
Last, but most important, don't call yourself an 'idiot'. That is one of my biggest pet peeves - self criticism. It will just get stuck in your subconscious. So now repeat after me.....
