Quote: Basically too much pursuing and way to much pressure and a feeling from me that I don't really give a rip.
Huh? There's a screaming contradiction. You realize of course, we are not going to let you get away with this.
If you did not give a rip, you would not be around this woman, tell her your feelings, be physical with her or listen. You would not give a rip, which you are not doing.
Deida is about finding your purpose. Not getting rid of parts of your life that are important. Clearly, she is important to you. And you can offer her a healthy Wes, with a purpose, a drive, a detemination.
If you wanted to really back off and give up (which I suspect deep down you really do not), you would have REALLY quit the last time you said you were.
Yes, it is about finding balance, but it is also about believing in the aspects of your life which are important to you.
If you truly shut down, backed off, did not pursue, how do honestly believe you would feel? In 6 months or a year, would have wished you gave yourself or her another chance?
