Hi Wes:

Personally I have not given any serious thought to dating or anything although I have been sorely tempted. I have so many things on my mind right now, with single-parenting D3 and all that it is almost impossible to do that. Besides I am not D yet and my W has not dated. So I am not in any position to advise you one way or another. In my own mind, I am quite certain that I will have great difficulty dating for a long time if my W decides to actually go through with the D and actually starts dating herself. I just would have too much baggage. In my experience and looking at the profile of the girl that you have mentioned it would surprise me if she would be interested in just casual dating. In my opinion it would simply complicate the situation for you. But then, hey, your situation is complicated as it is and is totally inexplicable anyway, so why not ust introduce more forks and bends in it and just make it absolutely the most incredible rollercoaster in the universe, sort of a wormhole to a different universe if you will?

BTW, it seems that Bruce and I are quite happy to rib you these days. Hope you dont mind?

UD


The 3 laws of DBing: 1. PMA is critical to DBing. 2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical. 3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.