UPdate (not much of one):

Maybe it was guilt or I don't know what, but I IM'd ex last night. She said she was sad. Apparently there were some difficulties with her kids and their grandparents. The G-pa had called the kids' father and said come pick them up (over a week early) because they wouldn't behave. I'm sure that knocked her PMA into the toilet. I was suitably validating. Really that was the main focus of the discussion. I did mention that since my car was being worked on I didn't make it home til late (I didn't mention the girl part) that I felt guilty over the dog being cooped up so long. She said "ozzie lova you" At least she didn't take a negative spin. That's just the take home message. She wasn't critical. Well back to work and perhaps more pursuing behaviors.


Interesting fact of note. The girl I was talking to yesterday said she had divorced her first husband after three years and then remarried him 2 months later. I don't know the details surrounding that since it was the first time ever talking to her. But they made it another twelve years. That is without any DBing.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt