Wes, I feel your struggle. Ever since I found my H spending actual face time with his 'friend', and I've asked for space to rediscover ourselves, I've found myself spending time with a man who is my friend. I like him. It's scary. But I like it anyway.
Yes, I feel guilty, but I'm trying to get over it. I'm rediscovering myself. Who knows what will happen. I'm having fun and I'm not going to wait around.