He is spending signficant time with and having constant contact with the one person he wants to. And all we can do is his criticize his behavior.
Don't you dare quit with the advice! I've never taken anything as criticism, only as advice. You are right that I am too anxious and attached. You are right about tweaking the dynamic. I do a lot of going with the flow and I do hang out with her alot, but the advice I get on here is in mind. It keeps me from doing too much and avoiding getting my expectations up too much. Believe it or not, I do listen. I don't recall anyone saying don't pursue, just try not to always include my W, and GAL outside of her. And that is excellent advice.
You're right...I'm spending time with the one person I want to. But I still need to be sure I have a fulfilling life without her as well. I'll get the balance right over time.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
