Man, all the action is here on your thread! I cannot believe the amount of time that your W wants to spend with you. but you know what, as long as you are not forcing the pace, you are doing great!
It is not difficult to figure out when the WAS feels pressured. You can gather that from their verbal as well as body-language responses. So I think that if we can keep expectations at zero then why not go with the flow and pursue. I mean, that does make us vulnerable to rejection but does that not also make us act like we did when we were initially wooing our W's. We were not afraid of rejection then were we? I mean, is the whole thrill of wooing not handling rejection and then getting back up like men and doing it again until our W's realise we mean business?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
