Bruce makes some very good points about the effect of LRT. But, in my sitch, I don't know if a random "how are you doing" phone call would make a difference. I call W occasionally, but it is usually K related. W told me that she wanted to remain friends and missed my friendship, yet, she really hasn't done anything notable that would indicate to me that she is looking to build our friendship. So, why would I go out of my way to make a big effort as well. I keep things very friendly between us and stay interested in her life when we talk, but at some point, the WAS has to pull alittle too.
But, currently, my R w/ W is much like Bruce describes in his last post here.
