XW definitely does not pursue me; something you and Wes both have in common and most would view as a positive.
Hey Wes, where are you? We are taking over your thread. Hope you did not get a life.
But we come back to the circular question, why? Why did they want out and a D then turn around and develop a different R.
There is there argument they need space and time and distance and needed D to start over. I do not buy that argument. They wanted out for many reasons we cannot begin to comprehend.
Right before and after the "bomb" and intially after she moved out, we had limited contact. She wanted nothing to do with me or the R or the M.
Do we have contact now? Yes, not like some.
Are we friendly? Yes. Does that make it easier on me? Honestly, not really.
I guess I have to both question and admire how you guys act in the manner you do?
Yes, you want the R and the person back full-time in your life. But as you said, at what price?
Can you sustain this R and enthusiasm for as long as it takes? Another year? Two? Three?
