T is dejavu. I was just playing with that old name.
Gabe I need advice and you are the only one on here. I hope you still are. Here's the scoop. I stupidly called by ex tonight. I know...not smart. She was out or going out with her girlfriends. I think she was already out. She told me which bar they were going to and said I was welcome to come over. There "is one girl you'll really like". Then she laughed. I said "Oh yeah" and she giggled. It then struck me that she was talking about herself. I said "yeah, I'm sure there will be a girl there I will like". I kind of waffled on whether I'd show up over there. She did ask a second time and said "well that's where we'll be if you decide to come out". We talked a bit how I might need to show up just to fend the guys off her. I closed with "if at the end of the night your driver or you are too drunk then you call me and I'll come get you. I'll get your friends too."
So, should I go over there and meet her? My heart is giving me mixed signals. Maybe I should not do the pursuit versus this could be a very good time with her and a chance to relive old times (we used to love going out dancing). She asked me more than once. Sure she didn't phrase it like "come out with us", but it was an invite all the same. So anyone's thoughts? I need a quick answer if possible.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
