_________________________________________________________ Controlling behavior is based on false entitlement, fear, and lots of energy hiding to the world what you really are. _________________________________________________________
Thank you these are about the best words of wisdom I think I have run across regaurding this behavior.
__________________________________________________________ If a controller (as I was) reaps their sowing they are not a victim. Not to say they need to protect themselves from overzealousness but do not deserve or need sympathy. little legal advice manybe, and letting them know somehow they need to change. ________________________________________________________
Though I myself do not like having to endure being or trying to be controlled by others I do have empathy for the people who suffer from the need to control others. It can not be easy to be so unsure of yourself.
I am glad to see you state former meaning you now have control of yourself
