After reading my post my H felt that it in the mention of being with a girlfriend watching movies and and talking for hours. I failed to mention a important factor to him. That this occurred at night and lasted into the wee hours of the morning. While he himself was 3 states away in bed along with our children. I guess he feels that if I point out that I was not only wronge by having a enjoyable time but did so until 2am you will justly see just how adhorrent my actions are. So I am complying and allowing you all to see the evil of my ways.