Just posing a question, but first have to agree that you can be friends with someone you were involved with before your current R or M.
My question is this: Once you are married or in an R, and your spouse has had/is having an EA/PA while being in the R, but let's say ends it...as the other spouse do you have a right to tell your cheating spouse that they cannot be friends with that person if the 2 parties involved agreed to be friends after it was done?
I ask this b/c my H is currently with an OW, but I know if it ever ended he would still want to be friends with her b/c she is a good person and doesn't want to hurt her. This would not be okay at all for me. I would not want them to see each other ever again if it could be helped.
