CN... I agree with you about Unbearable being unbearable...definitely not sexy and depressing. H and I liked it, though, not from an erotic POV, but because it made the point that we had better get our act together bc you never know what's around the corner.
I'm interested to hear what others suggest...I really haven't gotten the tingles from many movies, although a few I have found interesting. For a BDSM twist, Secretary with James Spader was fun to watch.
