Quote: one of them was "having more regular sex". I am always baffled when he makes those kind of references. My question is - what is stopping you? Does anyone have any idea of how to get around the idea that everything must be going just right in order to ML?
I’ve heard the same thing and asked the same questions. And you know what - fifteen years after W came out with the statement that we don’t ML often enough, I still don’t have any answers.
While pretty much every generality put forth on this board seems to draw somebody’s ire, I’ll offer one anyway. It seems to be a pretty common complaint that the LDS does seem to have to have everything in their life in order first. Somebody’s W is too worried about problems with the kids. Somebody else’s H is too stressed by something going on at work. Somebody else is worried that the dogs might be too inconvenienced by having to get off of the bed. Or they’re tired. Or their mother is sick. Among other things, to me ML is a respite from the real world, not something to be attended to once the real world is under control. It’s a deeply personal thing between W and myself where everything is good – regardless of what’s going on “out there”. LD’s don’t seem to see it that way.
