Re Karen1 I found myself wondering if the LDH's on this board were married to Jessica in all her blond, porno body perfection would they still rarely desire sex? I wondered more specifically if H had Jessica instead of me (or the playmate of his choice) would they be burning up the sheets?
Stop wondering. BB and I went down this path 30 years ago. To her breast were not large enough. She wanted me to dote over her and said if she had bigger breast I would do more for her. It was not about her breast size. It was about working, raising kids, painting the house, cleaning, and paying bills. Live gets in the way of fun many times.
I am not saying your H and situation are goint through what I experienced, but if you really had a "hot" body maybe things would cool off and be about the same as they are noe.
Somehow those "do nothing all day but screw around with someone elses spouse" soap operas were influencing BB thought process. Maybe I am way off here.
Dispite what i posted about not much changing if you had a hot body, I will say I do feel more satisfaction touching and having sex with BB if she has some mussel tone. I can feel a tight a$$ and get hotter from the first second we got together. So if you want a realistic goal that you can reach, some minimal weight lifting and walking might help.
Years ago I noticed small visual changes, but big time touch changes, when we had sex and my hands were on her butt. It did turn me on, not so much visually but tactilely. There is something PT people pick-up on. But aren't most of HDH "but not getting much" people built this way? I think I should include the HDW's too in their own special way too.
It did turn me on, not so much visually but tactilely. There is something PT people pick-up on. But aren't most of HDH "but not getting much" people built this way? I think I should include the HDW's too in their own special way too.