Got home after a long and incredibly exhausting day. H was trying to help me out and had dinner cooked then took the kids to the pool so I could grab some "me" time. I felt appreciative (work has been a bear) so I gave H a foot massage while watching tv. We had a nice talk about important family related topics. By the time we went to bed I was too tired to initiate the "talk" but I did say , "Hey H since you got back from you trip I've been wanting to do more in this bed than just sleep." His response? Ok. I said, "OK?" He said, I've just been too exhausted to think about it......and then fell asleep.
WTF? Would it kill him to say, "Gee honey, I've been missing sex with you too. I've just been tired." or "Can't wait for your period to be over so we can have sex." ANYTHING that would lead me to believe that there was ANYTHING even slightly sexually appealing about me.
