Karen, I think you are reading too much into it and taking it too personally. I'm guessing if your H were married to Jessica or some other equally hot babe, it wouldn't change him a bit. It is just the way he is wired. The upside? well, I keep telling myself that I never have to worry about MrsGGB cheating on me
My take on the whole thing is our LDS's want us, but just not in the way we think they should. Stop beating yourself up over this...it isn't you. Maybe instead of trying to get him to 'get' you, maybe taking an approach where you try to 'get' him, you know get inside his head and understand what he feels, and what makes him tick, might get you to a better place, KWIM?
