We really are in some doldrums on this board. I know I am. Again last night I went to bed at 10pm because I had an early board meeting. I heard H on the stairs around midnight but the baby cried and he went and picked her up then fell asleep on the couch with her until 2am. Well, obviously nothing was gonna happen on a night like that. However, once again I seem to have reached my limit with not saying anything. I sent H an email asking to talk tonight. I don't know what I will say. I don't know how not to sound like a well that just cannot be filled.
Back to the question of "normal" - to H I am probably not "normal" because of the level of my desire for sex and intimacy. To him what is normal is having sex when everyone is in bed on time, there is minimal stress and problems and both peoples bodies are sending unmistakable sexual signals. No wonder once every week or two is "enough" in his book. No wonder there can be a "feast" of twice in one week or every night on vacation followed by a famine lasting for a month or more. I just don't know anymore.
