The trip was good. I enjoyed seeing my friends. Dropped my two older kids off with the ex in GA while I went down to FL. The ex was in some snit with his finace and wanted me to verify to her what time I met him on I-95 etc... Had to laugh - what a lucky girl she is! I did enjoy the trip. H and his boys had a wonderful time on their trip as usual. We talked a couple of times during the trip. When they go do the guy thing I try not to call. We did ML before the trip but didn't last night. I am a little disappointed but.....
When I got home I came home to quite the shambles left by our 21yo foster son who stayed in the house while we were gone. In addition, someone (some hoodlum friend no doubt) had stolen my 13yo's paper route money out of his dresser drawer. I got home a couple of hours ahead of H and proceeded to try and get things in order before he got home. I called him on the road to update him on this latest round of kid stuff. He was P*ssed. He came home and raised h*ll and probably still is today (I am at work for a few hours getting myself together). I know he is frustrated about the mess and the $$ too but I also know that the primary reason that he is ticked is because he is trying to help and protect me. He didn't want me to come home to that kind of bs when I have such a heavy work week this week. I appreciate his love for me so much.
When we went to bed he snuggled up and said how much he had missed me and that it felt good to share our bed. He made sure to comment on how tired he was (IOW No sex please). I snuggled back and told him that if he woke up and changed his mind (like in our early R) I was game. I am kinda sorry that I didn't pursue him last night because I sometimes think that the I'm tired thing is more a habit than anything that reflects whether or not he wants to ML. Anyway, in deference to the way he consistently puts himself out there for me in other ways I didn't pursue anything. There's always tonight.
