Nice ideas about a memorial something. When I was younger I don't think I had any clue how sad something like this was for people. When I knew I had lost this embryo (accurate word) I talked to it and said that I was sorry that it wasn't going to be a part of our family but that it made us happy while it was here. I have always known when I was pregnant. I knew when this pregnancy was failing and I knew when it was gone. It is all very instinctive. I will think about something to acknowledge it and grieve a bit.
On the other subject - H is not a gawker either. He just does not make a habit of ogling women. My wounds about that issue have nothing to do with him. I mostly don't let them get the better of me but sometimes they do anyway. I don't know H is so hurt over the baby I'm really beginning to feel a bit better about his trip and his need to get away. In '06 I will need to remind him again I'm sure.
