Karen, Have you ever told him what would make the trip better for you?
Sometimes I think we place too much importance on "not overwhelming" our spouses. They need to see the real us. And then they can make a decision about what to do.
That is harsh, I know...I'm not a harsh person IRL and in fact, I baby my H like there's no tomorrow. But regardless of what changes or doesn't change with us, I feel SO much better when I let it all hang out and drop the pretenses.
Karen, I teared up when I read the "released the pregnancy" words. How awfully sad. How heart wrenching to have your body release the pregnancy without a baby in your arms and something to celebrate. I'm so sorry for you and H. I prayed for you yesterday and will continue to do so.
