Karen,
Under what circumstances would you be okay with the trip?

I find that pinpointing the exact reason for my resentment helps me deal with it.

For instance, if H were ML to you regularly, would you care that he was going? (I'm intentionally leaving out the Bad Timing aspects)

What is it that bothers you about it? That he's passionate re this trip?

Think some more on it and you will be able to identify the cause.

In the meantime, know that my prayers are with you and I'm hoping you feel better soon.

xo