Hi guys,

Looks like I am losing/have lost this one. Started spotting, hcg going down, progesterone way down - it is inevitable. H is sad. I am sad. We are loving each other. I guess this time just wasn't meant to be. It is such an early loss that I think the ob pretty much considers it a "non-event" as in, not indicative of problems. I plan to allow my body to miscarry naturally so sex will be out of the question for some period of time. However, I'm thinkin that it has been a while since H has gotten a nice bj and I'm thinkin that he would enjoy it. Last night he confessed to some confusion as to how to treat the whole sex issue and he sounded like he really was perplexed. IC is not really on the menu right now and it was a real gift to hear H sounds like he was missing it.

Karen