I sometimes feel like just laying naked on my back and calling that 'initiation', but since I am the HD, it certainly wouldn't be recieved as such. No, I don't think that is at all stepping up to the plate. I guess it would sort of be like if you just laid there and told him if he wants to boink that he's welcome to, but he's got to provide all the motion etc. Doesn't hold water as far as I'm concerned.
Regarding the pregant nookie, that has always seemed be when we are at our best in bed. No anxiety over whether she'll get pg or not since it is already a done deal. Seems like pg makes her hornier too (otherwise, she only gets horny when she is ripe which meant she got pregnant 'easily', hence people's perception that we must be boinkin' like rabbits full time...I get kind tired of the comments about keeping my hands off her etc by well meaning friends and neighbors).
No, I don't think that is at all stepping up to the plate. I guess it would sort of be like if you just laid there and told him if he wants to boink that he's welcome to, but he's got to provide all the motion etc. Doesn't hold water as far as I'm concerned.