Nice weekend in our HH. H had a few drinks on Saturday (which invariably makes him horny) and really put some effort into his pre-bedtime displays of desire. On the one hand I wish that it weren't so difficult for him and that he didn't need to "grease the wheels" on the other I kind of hope that in time that won't be necessary. Prior to our relationship of the last four years H had only actually had IC a handful of times (with two partners). One of my pet theories is that H is actually at the sexual development level of a teenager because of his inexperience. However, unlike a teenager he has years and years of anxieties to wade through to deal with his sexuality.
On Saturday night we were watching some movie which was kind of like a "Toy Story" for adults (I can't remember the name, it was stupid) but in one scene the dolls get together to ML and they do it every which way (think Kama Sutra. It was meant to be funny and H was laughing hyserically (although he is a one position - female superior kinda guy). I could also tell that he was getting aroused. I think that H is interested in all the fancy sexual positions but the anxiety prevents him from asking or even from manuevering that way during sex. I have gotten him to do the "spooning" position successfully and missionary for exactly five seconds (he was uncomfortable that he might squish me or something). If I try to roll over to another position H begins flailing around uncomfortably and makes it clear that me on top is the only thing he feels comfortable with. Early in our R he bought one of those "better sex" videos and watched it but still didn't want to try anything new. Any thoughts on this anyone?
Basically, all is good, we are in reasonable sync. Unfortunately H is going out of town for several days so we aren't going to be ML for that time period. Oh well.
