Well, I guess Mr.IHJ wins the BB boy scout award ( he was one, of course). He appears calm and easy-going, but has an alcoholic/bad-tempered father and has learned to detach from the angry part of himself. I have always been the good girl, and together we look like Mr and Mrs Innocent. But...there was the Bad Predatory Boyfriend I met my first day in college ( as he scouted out the new freshmen)...I remember when my H and I first met and we were discussing being dumped, he was fascinated by the fact I was BPB's gf for so long.
It would be fun and exciting if we could make it to the dark side every now and then.
