I have always liked the bad boys and I think while we were dating I actually made the mistake of equating some of my H's bad boy behaviors (a truck driver's vocabulary for one, a tendancy to flaunt certain societal rules for another) to be the same as some of the "bad boys" of my youth who were "ravishers." I guess I still kinda suspect that he has it in him and that it is just underneath a layer of anxiety.
