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I am torn between the desire to enjoy the place we are in and the desire to parlay this progress into progress in other areas. For example, is now the time to mention that I would like more oral sex? Is now the time to mention that more kissing (not just passionate pecks) would really rev my engine? I know that the several ladies here who have made progress will be familiar with the dilemma. To pressure or not to pressure that is the question.




I think the best way to handle asking for this is right in the moment. Of course that is just my opinion. Like you are touching and getting sexual and ask him.... baby kiss me passionately. If it revvvvvved my engine I would say something along the lines of hmmmm that was really nice baby. If I have wanted oral sex from him I ask him. My husband started slacking in this area awhile ago. So I tried this....we were starting to touch and kiss and so I asked him right in the passionate moment...honey would you lick my kitty. I have missed you so much doing that. When he did by my moans and screams he could tell I was VERY appreciative of his skills. When he was done and right before he entered me I told him how awesome that was.
From then on he just did it a lot more. Maybe it just took that reminder that I enjoyed it and missed it. Of course I really think he got turned on that I asked.