For me, the O thing is tricky...sometimes I O, sometimes I don't...and the times that I don't, it's usually not important to me...until it is.
As far as H goes, sometimes he asks about it and other times he doesn't. I really don't want him asking all the time, because, again, it's not all that important to me and the asking can be annoying.
Anyway, I am glad I went for it...when in doubt, I will do it again! I am starting to get the hang of this HD stuff!
As far as his finalizing comment...I let that be the final word, for now, but we'll see how the weekend plays out. I am starting to get the hang of this self-assertive stuff!
