Honey... I always appreciate your focus on solutions. I am going to make two sets of cards; the first will say, " My mood sucks and it's not about you" and the second, " My mood sucks and it is about you," lol. Just as I feel overly responsible for keeping him happy, he feels overly responsible for making me miserable.

I guess I'd like him to reach over to me in some fashion rather than head for the hills when he scans my face and doesn't like what he sees. I like the idea of staying in better touch thoughout the day as a preventative measure, but once the distance sets in, it runs its course.

Anyway, I am hoping that the wall will come crumbling down on Thurs.