Karen... This BB is the extent of my journaling, but I do have a few solutions to the blahs ( walking the dog, listening to music, distracting myself, etc). I just wish my H wouldn't personalize my "downness" but I do understand how it must feel for him. I guess I am pining for something that won't happen ( H to hold onto himself and comfort me), so I will do a 180 and reach out to him.
