IHJ,

Wisdom is one thing I do not have on this subject. I have wondered over the course of this month if my detached person moving there daughter gave the daughter the thought that I did not care she was leaving. Of course had I have not taken that detached person moving there daughter attitude she may have thought I needed to be in a nutty bin. lol

Wisdom again is not mine but fear oh yes I have four children. Youngest is S10. I have really projected into the future of what I will do when he his gone. I have seriously considered having another child. I am 42 and have fear of what ifs due to my age is the only thing that has stopped me.
I see me as being one of those people with 30 cats dogs and geese in future life to fill that void. So 8 years from now when you see the humane society siezed 100 animals from lonely lady in NC article it will probably be me!