I do find that enneagram stuff interesting and helpful. Thanks, Hairdog, for letting us know about it from your C.
Well, this weekend should be interesting. H mentioned he wants to try half-a-Viagra this weekend, woo-hoo,lol. I really don't know what it's going to do for him since he has no medical issues, but who knows, maybe it will provide a dose of self-assuredness to the picture. I also like the idea that he is experimenting with his sexuality; he has been joking with me about it and the tone in the house is funny and light.
He just called and told me he made an appt for a consult for the vasectomy. In true Journey form, I am having neurotic feelings about the whole thing; what happens in the future, if for some unknown life event, I become very LD again and here he is going through all this? I mean, I talk the talk of wanting a good sex life, but now I really have to walk the walk. This is the scary part of my H picking up his pieces of the puzzle and looking at them. Also, this event marks the end of any possible baby-dom ( which I ruled out 5 yrs ago anyway)...but somehow it now feels official. It's like the end of a chapter.
That's it for now...off to the movies...have a great weekend everyone...and D12 comes home tomorrow!!!
