I am picturing our sex life as a puzzle, with the pieces slowly coming together. Before I began this journey, all the pieces were turned down; I slowly picked up my share and gave H his, all the while trying to figure out how both our parts fit together. Many times I feel I am working too hard on this, alone, even though my H would like the picture completed (enjoying a good sex life). Today, however, H pulled out two of his own pieces, and I have to say, I am a little taken aback, but in a good way.Just a little shocked right now. He had a routine physical for work, and told the doctor that his anniversary is coming up ( not exactly true...it's in Dec.) and he'd like to spice things up, and outrightly asked him for Viagra samples. He came home at lunch-time and showed me them! The second thing is that he told the doc that he would like a vasectomy. We had discussed this yrs ago but he didn't like the idea of being clipped, and I guess in the back of my mind I couldn't completely rule out the chance for a third child. We have been doing a combo of condoms and pulling out; my H just said to me that he feels the sex would be more enjoyable if he didn't have this part hanging in the air. So, he's made a few moves to enhance his sexuality without my input...we shall see where this takes us.
