Journey, When you guys have dates, what is it like in the interim?
Is there any flirting, any sexual vibe going on? Or do you wait for Date Night?
I'm trying like hell to get this schedule thing down but I obviously didn't factor enough sex into the bargain. Even with pelvic pain constantly throwin water on my hot mama attitude, I still seem to have more of a need for it than H does.
He is currently in his "I will offer it every 3 days" mode. Gosh I hate this. However, I have been doing quite well with it because he's making an attempt to be somewhat (that's probably an overstatement, lol) sexual in between. Some days are better than others, I should say.
How is your daily vibe?
We've been awfully stressed out--me, mostly--adjusting to H's new schedule. He is staying 2 hours later than he did at his old job, but still leaving at 5 in the morn so he can make it to Mass. I'm trying to be my usual cheerful self when he walks through the door but it is getting HARD. I'm only one person, meeting the demands of 3 small children by myself for over 13 hours a day. He's here to bathe them and put them to bed. Ah but enough of that. My point is: If he were hot for me, I think I'd be energized by that and be able to make this transition smoother. We need to work on keeping the vibe alive during the Off Days and I was curious how you do that. H seems to have two speeds: Off and On. Me, you gotcher low, you gotcher medium low, you gotcher....well, you get the picture.
