Just a quick thought about the WOA with friends. I have a best friend whom I have known for about 23 years or so. And yes, we exchange frequent WOA. I often tell her what a wonderful Mom she is, or great friend. I always thank her for her kind gestures. She does the same for me. I would venture to say that she complements me on my appearance at least as often as my H does and she lives several states away. What's more she gives specific compliments - like that dress really shows off your legs OR that haircut brings out your eyes. H could take some lessons from her. I could stand to use the same tactics with H that work in my R with her.
