J, Isn't it funny how the blowouts--that used to be not that big of a deal--now feel SO bad because of how far you've come?
Shake it off my dear. It was a step back but you've already recovered that ground with the goodwill you are showing each other today.
And, fwiw, I think it is perfectly normal to have a back-and-forth thing as the R is getting all the kinks worked out. Personally I think the other couples are in denial about being in happyville. LOL
Gotta go make jam.
P.S. I have all 3 of my kids sleeping and I am outta here!