Journey, I can understand him doing reacting like that to old stuff being pulled out. I'm more of a 5 and 9 on the Enneagram. I've also taken a job that's not in my field and been at for 16 years because of financial and benefit concerns. His relaxing is like my enjoying my extracurricular stuff, it feels like I get to be "me" more. Also my spouse has had a habit in the past of bringing up old stuff in arguments, which she seems to be reforming herself. Now if she'll only understand that twice a month on her schedule is driving me batty, life will be better.
Scott -Who maintains control dispite it being Friday and his co-workers are wearing nicely fitting jeans and skirts.
"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"
