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The only drawback is that he commented that we have been having too much sex lately and we need to take a break for awhile. I didn't get into this with him to clarify what this means, but I hate this kind of statement...very dictatorial.





Maybe he just meant to convey what somebody would mean if they said "We've been eating too much barbeque and ice cream lately.". If your H is a Type7, he might say this because he is trying to fight against his own self-indulgent nature. He is giving himself dictatorial orders, not you. The reason he would do this is there is something he feels guilty about not doing when he is doing sex. For instance, maybe he's been procrastinating on a work project and feels like he doesn't deserve to be having a "f*ckfest" while that is true.


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